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For Love Of Country, Please Shag Your Partner – YourTango

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This July 4th, perhaps the focus for Mr. and Mrs. Politician should be more on the fireworks happening between their sheets (or lack thereof) rather than the one’s overlooking the Washington Monument.

That’s right, this holiday, if you love your country then please shag your partner.

We know it’s hard. It’s been a while, hasn’t it? Between fundraisers and photo ops and everything else that’s happened since you two tied the knot, the spark has surely fizzled.

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The Truth About Why Men Cheat

WebMD Feature from “Redbook” Magazine By Nicole Yorio Redbook Magazine Logo Counselor M. Gary Neuman surveyed 200 cheating and noncheating husbands to get at the real reasons behind men s infidelity. What makes men cheat Marriage counselor M. Gary Neuman dug through past research on male infidelity and found that most answers came from the wife s point of view. Wouldn t it make more sense to ask the guys he thought. So for his new book The Truth About Cheating Neuman surveyed 200 cheating and noncheating husbands to get at the real reasons behind men s infidelity — including what cheating men say could have prevented them from straying. Here some of his findings 48 of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason they cheated. So much for the myth tha

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Why Do Men Cheat? 9 Reasons Why Men Cheat | Lifescript.com

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Why do men cheat? South Carolina Governor Mark Sanford is the latest politician to admit he had an extramarital affair… and Nevada Sen. John Ensign before that. Yet cheating isn’t limited to the famous and powerful. So seriously, what’s the deal? We examine 9 reasons men say they stray. Plus, take our quiz and find out if your guy will cheat…

Gov. Sanford seemed to have it all: power, success, money, a loving family. Yet with everything to lose, he cheated on his wife, Jenny. Could she have spotted the warning signs? Why DO men cheat? And could it happen to you?

Approximately 40% of men seek sexual satisfaction outside their relationships, estimates Kat Hertlein, Ph.D., professor of human development at the University of Nevada – Las Vegas and a marriage and family therapist.

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Sex Without Intimacy: No Dating, No Relationships : NPR

The hookup — that meeting and mating ritual that started among high school and college students — is becoming a trend among young people who have entered the workaday world. For the many who are delaying the responsibilities of marriage and child-rearing, hooking up has virtually replaced dating.

It is a major shift in the culture over the past few decades, says Kathleen Bogle, a professor of sociology and criminal justice at La Salle University.

Young people during one of the most sexually active periods of their lives aren’t necessarily looking for a mate. What used to be a mate-seeking ritual has shifted to hookups: sexual encounters with no strings attached.

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365 Nights of Sex: Can It Strengthen a Marriage?

By Suzanne Wright
WebMD Feature
Reviewed by Louise Chang, MD

If you decided to have sex every day, would your relationship benefit?

Two long-married couples decided to find out. When lovemaking fell off their respective “to-do” lists, they ditched the sweats, bought sex toys and books, stepped up exercise, lit candles, and took trips. Then they chronicled their “sexperiment” in two recently released books, Just Do It: How One Couple Turned Off the TV and Turned On Their Sex Lives for 101 Days (No Excuses!) by Doug Brown and 365 Nights: A Memoir of Intimacy by Charla Muller with Betsy Thorpe.

But will daily sex really help a relationship that’s hit a rough patch? Some experts say yes; others aren’t so sure. As for the two couples who tried it, the Browns and the Mullers, both say the experiment strengthened their marriages in — and out — of the bedroom.

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Top 5 Shy Guy Pick-Up Moves – YourTango

The gals over at Lemondrop featured a great move for a shy girl to initiate a conversation with a guy at a bar. It’s such a great technique that I’ve unwittingly been the victim of it without even knowing (be sure to check it out).

There are some guys who do the not talking thing pretty well, they’re called Silent Assassins and they’re usually very handsome, rich or somehow renowned (or some combo thereof). But other shy guys have employ a few great little moves to get the ball rolling, sometimes these moves are a little too subtle, so for your edification here are a few shy guy* techniques so you know when he’s hitting on you (from most to least obvious):

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The Sex-Starved Wife

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Men always want sex. That’s the message you hear from your friends, from talk-show experts, from TV sitcoms. Except when they don’t.
What if you find that you’re the one craving a deeper sexual connection, but he simply doesn’t want sex very often — or ever? How can you rescue your sex life? Read on for couple-tested solutions for bringing intimacy and heat back into your relationship, in this exclusive excerpt from the new book by REDBOOK Love Network expert Michele Weiner Davis.

Maybe your marriage started out on fire — you couldn’t keep your hands off each other. But somewhere along the line, your husband lost interest in sex. Or maybe the signs of his sexual sluggishness were there all along; you just assumed things would get better, but if anything, they’ve gotten worse.

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Could Too Much Sex Negatively Impact Your Marriage? | Simple Marriage

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If there is one topic that repeatedly gets the most buzz it’s sex. I’ve written on this topic several times thus far and I’ve always tried to approach the subject honestly.

One of the issues argued about in marriage may be the frequency of sex. The words too little or too much are often thrown around in this discussion. Regardless of which camp you find yourself, have you stopped to consider the impact the frequency of sex has upon your marriage?

Throughout the years there have been numerous research studies on the subject. Most notably beginning with Alfred Kinsey and his colleagues who surveyed over 11,000 men and women covering a wide variety of sexual issues, including how often they had sex. They discovered that young married couples tended to have sex approximately twice weekly.

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Dating Question: Are You Having an Emotional Affair? — Yahoo! Personals

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An email here, a smile there. Maybe that ‘innocent’ friendship with your guy friend isn’t so innocent after all…

By Heather Johnson Durocher for Redbook

Relationship alert: 82 percent of affairs happen with someone who was at first “just a friend,” according to noted infidelity researcher Shirley P. Glass.
So… despite any obvious signs of cheating in your so-called friendship, ask yourself: Are you having an emotional affair?

You’ve Probably Crossed the Line if You…

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Lust for The Long Haul

WebMD Commentary from “Psychology Today

By Elizabeth DeVita-Raeburn
Psychology Today Magazine
When my husband and I started dating, we quickly became one of those obnoxious couples who couldn’t keep their hands off each other. We kissed every time we stopped at a crosswalk—in New York, that’s a lot. At Starbucks we were so grotesque—staring into each other’s eyes, stroking each other’s arms—that when the branch removed its tables and converted to carryout, we wondered if we were the reason. Once, during a protracted public goodbye, a group of teenagers actually screeched at us to get a room.

We did more than that. We got married. Like most couples in the throes of passion, we were smug, convinced that all the clichés about things slowing down described partners who weren’t meant to be together in the first place. But slowly, things did cool off. We still loved one another, still held hands. But the crosswalk kissing and the subway platform clinches faded away. Instead of long weekend mornings in bed, we started getting up early and going to the gym.

I couldn’t help (a) noticing, and (b) torturing myself about what it meant. You’d have to be hiding under a rock for the last decade not to know that half of all marriages now end in divorce, and that sexual difficulties are one of the leading complaints of unhappy couples. Was this how it begins?

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